Thanks sweetie!! I know it's probably going to get even more ugly in the next week before it gets better. I just can't take it any more and it amazes me that H thinks I should. Sheila emailed me some thoughts and it really helped. Today's conversation with my H was tough, but I kept thinking about her email and the other ways in which H has continued to let us down, even in the past few days. Not seeing him lift a finger to do anything to get ready for the move and seeing the concert tickets just further push into my mind where his priorities lie and it's not with D4 and I.
I hope that your time off the boards means that you're going on vacation.
Take care!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day