From someone who is struggling with money I will say that I don't want a man to take care of me.But if he invites me somewhere I can't afford and I can't go I would be mad if he didn't understand.
I dated a guy (remember suitcase man?) who thought I wanted his money.He had about as much as me.I would sometimes complain when things were really hard.I didn't want his money.But he thought so.Even asked me if I was hinting for him to give me some.
That guy is gone.I take care of myself the best I can.I'm kind of proud of it.
If she isn't gold digging and you think she is and ask her about it you risk her dropping you.I did.
Just becasue I'm poor doesn't mean I want some man to take care of me.I'll get there on day and I want to know that it is all mine.
Later Friend Briget
The grass is always greener over the septic tank... Erma Bombeck
Treat hate with Love... DR. Martin Luther King
