To me it seems, just as in the M we realize too late what we could have done better, that we should cut contact a lot sooner than we do. We are the LBS but we still think if we keep talking and saying this or that, that its going to work out. I wish in my case I would have cut ties a lot sooner and especially harder when you have children and seemed to be controlled by them from W.
my stories
M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful