Originally Posted By: theoden
God is always willing to forgive and heal.


This is what he is counting on.. that God will forgive him because he has repented by d'ing me and is, therefore, no longer sinning.

But, what you are saying is that the only way to repent is to completely end this R (even after the d is final); and then, only if I say no to reconciliation is he off the hook for the d. Am I interpreting this correctly?

Originally Posted By: theoden
"If anyone has any reason to give why this couple cannot be lawfully wed, speak now or forever hold his peace."? That was to give people the public opportunity to say, "Excuse me, but this person had an affair and left his wife. There are no biblical grounds for him divorcing his wife, therefore as a minister of the Gospel, you shouldn't be marrying these people."

Hey...fly me in to step into their wedding ceremony. I'd love to say that. Hehehehehe.


Oh.. THAT would be funny!!! I might just take you up on the offer some day \:o