Still chuggin along

[Scott123]

I'm with Tink on this one. Same for my W. I cut her
off now totally. I don't talk to her, I don't text
her, don't email, don't offer her anything. I pretty
much act as if 100% of the time. She is not in any
of my future plans.

She wants a divorce... well I'm not going to be around at
her beck and call if we are divorced so I'm giving her
a taste of it now. Although, I'm not doing it for her, I'm
doing it for me. I just got so fed up with her BS and
other mental games that I just decided I'm not participating
anymore. She can wallow around in the misery she caused.
If she comes around some time in the future well maybe I'll
consider working on what we had, but the way it is going
now I doubt it.

I'm pretty much acting as if I'm already divorced since
that's where its headed anyway. I don't have the energy
or the interest in fighting this every day so I'm done.

I think you might want to try being more firm to your W. Show
her that you will not let her take advantage of you at all.

- Scott