I remember reading about the DUI stuff but never posted. My W came close to getting one a couple months after she filed and it was on hold. Got 3 tickets instead. Being me I would probably have helped her out thinking it would be the turning point and bring us back. Would have been made out to be this person, like I probably already am, if I didnt help her. But yes, Tink sums it up pretty good. She cant have her cake and eat it too.

I can relate of being nice and finishing last and not wanting to hurt anybodys feeling. You only hurt yourself though huh?

my stories

M-31
W-28
S7 D2.5
T 8, M 4
W filed 2-14-08
D on hold 3/08
D off hold 5/08
D to be final on/by Nov 08
Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful