KJ - I have just recently started reading your thread and admit I don't now your whole back story but you sound like you are floundering and I wanted to lend my support.

(((((Kelly Jo)))))

In order to grow love in your R, you have to love yourself first. To love yourself you have to find your self-worth.

KJ, it seems to me, and I could be totally wrong, that you have forgotten to look at the wonderful things about you and build on them. If your own son is telling you that your H is walking on you then you are being a bit of a doormat darling.

May I ask, what does your H do for a living? Someone made mention of him telling you what to do regardless of what he did for a living and it made me curious.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!