Bring on the Rain - Part 4

[SueS]

Hi tal. Thanks for coming by!

Just had a conversation with H. Didn't go so well for him. Since everything as far as the move seems to be so messy as far as the dates, getting into the new place, the landlord needing into the current place....I had to talk to H. I was able to secure a unit at the new building that I can get into as early as this Sat. I asked H if he could still (as he said he could) help me move some of the heavier things. He said he could, while questioning me the entire time about why I chose this place (cutting down all of my reasons). The things he kept saying did in fact indicate that he had all intentions of moving with me until his plans were in place. I asked him....what are you going to do? He said that he was hoping to find a place soon.....especially after he finds out what's happening with his court date (DUI). I finally asked.....When you say soon, what do you mean....what timeframe? He said, Well, I was hoping within a month. I got angry. I said, why is this fair? Why did I have to get all my sh*t in order and find a place but you didn't? He said, Well, if you don't want me to move with you, then just say so. I said, H, it's just completely wrong and unfair of you to think that it's okay for you to tell me to get my affairs in order, find a place for D4 and I and then when you don't have yours in order, to expect me to just say it's okay that you move with us. He got very angry saying that he'd figure out a place to stay, even if that meant living in his car.

Before the anger of his knowing that I don't want him to move with me, he asked me what I planned on him paying for D4. I told him that as of right now I hadn't figured everything out, but I'd hoped that he would continue to pay for daycare. He said that he planned on paying for that. He also had planned on paying our cell phone bill (until we figure everything out), giving me any extra money he can and also trying to help me refinance the van so it's not so much. We'll see if he changes his tune.

SueS