Sending positive vibes to my H!

[pisces9]

UD-
The analogy that hlped me the most was from the DR book by michelle- she states that the FIX IT ADDICTS do everything for the M and break the see saw. this doesnt allow the other peron to see that they need to do anyting or even allows them space to do anything. The see saw cant move. once you give up trying to fix it, the see saw begins to move in the other direction.

the fact that your W has told you this point blank is very clear. DO IT.

another thing was GAL! serisouly- get out and do things you have always wanted to do, parks, museums, religion, sports, gym, crafts, food, whatever it is..try it. push yourself as hard as it is..i know how hard it is.

let them come to you more- let them lead their own life.

you can do this!