but she gave him something I did not. And I do take responsibility for not being what he needed. But he never told me what that was.
Hon, listen, she was no better than you, what was lacking was inside of him, that was the reason he broke his M vows and went with ow. If there were things that you could've improve as a W that was NO reason for him to do what he did, there is no excuse for an A. I can see that for most WAH the problem was that they ate their unhappiness and didn't let us know what was wrong, we are not mind readers damn it, so don't you blame yourself because he acted in a cowardly way and seeked a distraction to his internal emptiness. If there is something she gave him that you didnt' have then it was a fantasy, carefree la la land life which evaporates once people have to deal with real life.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
