Ouch. Felt that, and true. I KNOW there's plenty wrong with me. No sx during a 4-5 year period with a beautiful woman is a huge clue that something is wrong with me. Plus my getting angry with her in 2000 and deciding to get emotionally involved with OW as revenge, even if the OW was setting me up, is another symptom.
Point taken.
I hear you about the wellbutrin. Was prescribed a generic; not taking it for same reasons you give. Taking a quarter of the sleeping pill dosage, though, and helped a little.