Hi Puddle,

Yes, it is really just getting started & I'm preparing for the fireworks. Play it cool & keep my focus, even when it gets uncomfortable, which I can count on.

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Seems like continuing to be dim/dark is the way to go right now. And a BIG 180 will be to not let up on it at the first glimmer of cooperation/'making nicey' from H


Everyone seems to be in agreement here L, including me.

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he needs to know that there are consequences to his actions and that you are not going to let him control you.


He does need to know that, you're right Dave.


Well, the surprises keep coming, a call to her office to verify she wasn't in town today, resulted in "She no longer works here."

Uh Oh, with a huge mortgage to pay on her condo that H just helped her get out of foreclosure & no income, could be the reason H all of a sudden can't live in his little place any longer. I hope not, the thought of her living a few blocks away is almost intolerable....ugh.

Sunny


M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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