Hey FIB - I'm trying but she is giving me the emotion steamroller. It seems like she keeps me right where she wants me, not too close and not too far away. I feel like such a doormat.

Question - You say 2 years - was that when you found out - or do you think your W was suffering longer?? I actually think my W was suffering longer (up to two years), but just had me believing it was other things.

Now she is talking about the Lake George trip. It's in a little over 3 weeks - she is expecting me to go with her. Do you think that is good? At least it will be time with her and I know the kids are in good hands (with her parents). While we'll be with the neighbors - there will be downtime when we are alone back in the room. What would you do in my shoes??


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.