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All went pretty good, no injuries to report. Was up late last night with S15 answering questions about R and how it applies in the religious arena. Did the best I could, but it still didn't add up well with him. I sure wish W would wake up and see the damage she is already causing.

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From experience, I realise that wishing doesn't get you anywhere - live in the now, and just have hope that all will be well, once all we can do is done.

Sucks when you have to discuss this with the youth in your family --- they are so much more complicated, and have so many more scrutinizing questions.

Thanks for your insights on my thread! \:\)


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W/STBX is pushing pretty hard to "get it done". Needless to say I hope for the best, but am not holding my breath. W seems to be in quite the hurry, but legally, I don't have to go anywhere till the judge says so.

Found out about a bit of a GAL event that was scheduled for me. I'm excited, but apprehensive about what could happen when I'm gone. When a spouse gets to this point in the game, your not sure what they will do. I have a pretty good idea what she might try eventually, but that will definitely cause her to loose face with a few people we know. It's hard when you know it will probably get worse before it gets better.

I've got some other things I would like to discuss with you, but I'll get back to you on that. It's a little late right now.

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Try being proactive instead of reactive to whatever W is scheming. Do you think STBXW cares anymore what other people are thinking? Protect yourself.

Have fun with the GAL and try to forget the rest for a while.


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So...details on this scheduled GAL event?


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On the R front, too many details to cover here, nor do I really want to has that out on here right now. W is pushing hard to "get it done". New and "improved" set of papers for me to sign. A lot of financial aspects tied to it, so W is pushing hard.

Have to decide how and when to tell the younger kids that don't know. I would rather re-take any exam I have ever taken in my life than to do what I have to face this weekend. Please send your prayers this way.

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((Phoenix)) Prayers are definitely with you--I know you will handle this weekend with strength and courage. I'm so sorry for your little ones. And you.


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Well today will probably be the day I have feared the most. Pretty much have to sign the papers today. Since I have nothing positive to say, I'll just leave it at that and wish good thoughts for the rest of you. Keep up the good fight, do the best you can and show your beliefs in your actions.

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