Okay I have typed this twice today, and it was so great, I am going to send it with you.
My friend was at church this weekend, and her paster said this: when one door closes, another one opens. Sometimes, though, it does not open right away. So you are stuck waiting in the hallway. The hallway is a time for growth, self reflection, and to take care of other things other than the issue at hand. When your growth is complete, the door begins to open.
Take this time in the hallway to focus on you, and remember, men never tell their friends that they have "feelings". That would make them less macho. It's a guy thing, and it doesn't have anything to do with you.
Also, and I do this with love, <SLAP> on the hand. Stay outta the e-mail. It is hard, I know. But sometimes, you can completely misread a situation, not know what it means, and drive yourself crazy.
Lola
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
