Most men are too dumb to understand that even little things are important, like his coffee example.
Be kind to us dummies, Bridge.
I find there is a difference between ignorance and stupidity (dumb).
Ignorance is not being aware of something, but having the capacity to learn it.
Stupidity is being aware of it, but not having the capacity to learn it.
I believe some men are ignorant initially and whether they want to be stupid after they have been told "HEY the little things matter" is a choice.
Finding the line between kind & co-dependent is where I have issues. I will self-silence my needs & wants if I feel that following through with them will hurt him. That is part of what got us into this mess in the first place.
As a teacher I believe all are capable of learning. But not necessarily to the level that NCLB (no child left behind) says they should!
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
