Isn't it ironic... don'tcha think?..

[SueS]

Yes.. I am angry as heck all of a sudden. I know that no matter what I say or do, good or bad, it's not going to change my situation. Soooo... the anger is kind of spewing out.. Oh well.. 'bout time he hears some of it.

LO- You have said EXACTLY and I mean EXACTLY how I've been feeling lately. It's amazing how they can put us through such turmoil and through such emotions.

Here's a question for any Christian out there who cares to answer.. Is the R with the OP ever not a sin? When you are D'd from your spouse and he/she continues the R with the OP, is it then ok in God's eyes? Will he then bless that R even though it started in sin?

I think Theo is one of the better ones to answer this question. My answer would be NO. How can a relationship that started as a sin, out of betrayal, lies...etc. ever be blessed in God's eyes? In man's twisted mind....yes, it's okay. I don't ever see it being blessed in God's eyes. In man's world and view, once it's legal, it's okay. God doesn't go by our laws. Your H can ask for forgiveness, but he still sinned. It doesn't erase the sin. My H has made what I consider very stupid comments about how it's okay that D4 spends time with OW when we're still living together because eventually she'll be a part of D4's life anyway. They just don't see it clearly. It's all to justify their actions.

I've been thinking of you. Hugs to you and D4.

SueS