I look forward to your thoughts on this, Phoenix! It's the only thing I can think of to do without actually D, or just staying as we are. I am not happy with this M, and I need to move on. H has had long enough to earn back my trust, and do the right thing. I think he just likes having his family to come home to, and doesn't see the need to do anything about our intimate life, or our R (for example, never discussing our finances with me ... this has been a huge crux in our M for years, and I am tired of not knowing about a very important part of my life, or having a plan for the future, and discussing that plan).

I have just had enough!

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim