Child support??? Don't you dare pay a specific amount until you have papers from a judge saying how much. Until it's legally determined you just help with bare essentials and give her as minimal amount as possible because, "Sweetie, I am struggling with my rent and my own bills.... next paycheck I'll try and get a little extra to you (not!)." Do not be a chump!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
