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Wouldn't it be better to say "I do not want a D and want to keep my family together. I ask you to do the same but you are free to make your own choices" rather than "That's your choice, I didn't want this divorce"? Maybe a bit of wordplay, but the message in the second has a blaming aspect whereas it is not as explicit in the first.

Maybe moot, but...

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