Jeff: I had to step away several times, because she started talking about our R telling me she was sorry for hurting me, I told her I don't want to hear that, she said it so many times it doesn't mean anything.
I kind of put this out of my mind: This is what I heard over the course of several months from W:
"The kids are driving me crazy" "The kids don't listen to me" "I don't want to yell at the kids anymore like a crazy person" "You were a great husband and father" "You did everything you could" "I need my own space that no one messes up (kids)" "It's not about OM" "I don't love you" "I'm not attracted to you" "I found myself and being a W and stay at home mom isn't it" "I feel like running out and screaming after a day with the kids"
On Saturday the only reason W gave for the D was our relationship, not the kids, not the OM, not I found myself nothing but our relationship with each other.
I didn't respons to this, this is one of the times I had to step away. I was always willing to work with W if she gave up OM, and she knows this
I think karen posted this about her H: "delusional"
I think this applies to my W also
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
