Why can't you intiate a conversation about a movie????????

We're not playing a game here. This is real life.

I saw the movie. It was amazing, Heath Ledger was amazing...I wanted to talk to other people about it.

Gosh, sometimes we make things so damned hard on ourselves with ridiculous thinking.


UD, you cannot talk RELATIONSHIP with her. You cannot share your NEEDS or FEARS with her. You can't talk about that stuff unless she brings it up, and even then YOU HAVE TO BEHAVE.


For crying out loud, conversations about things like movies could very well be the kinds of things that open the door back up to her.


Where did you EVER get this notion?


Sigh....



Bill

"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."