It's frustrating, i understand. At the start of my sitch, there was OM who i know was confusing my W.....with all sorts of things. It didn't help that I kept getting pissed about it, and showing her in ways that weren't helpful.
Look, just be yourself. Your H has to decide and tell this Ginny that he can't do anything...... He needs to realize HE needs time to heal.
Remember, you can't control what he does. He needs to make these decisions by himself. Be the best W you can be....in spite of the circumstances. He will realize what he's going to lose if he continues.
Keep strong. You're doing great!
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
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