First of all eat. The worse thing you can do is not eat.
It sounds like your wife was planning this for some time. She was just trying to push you into a pit so that she could justify her actions. With that said, work on you.
Eat, sleep, and exercise. Force yourself.
Do not put the attention on her. Focus on you. Become the best mycroft69.
Get a life... GAL. It means to do activities that will make you feel better about yourself.
Page 244 of Divorce Remedy. Writing letters to your wife didn't work. Scratch that off your list.
DO NOT ASK FAMILY MEMEBERS FOR HELP.
Be yourself. Be still, be calm. Be patient. Having patience is an understatement.
In the future you have interactions. Make sure everyone of them are as positive as possible. Validate feelings. Sorry you feel that way. It was not my intention in hurting you.
There is a term used on this board called MAN UP! It means pull up your boot straps and hang on. You are fighting for your marriage, and that says a tremendous amount about your charecter.
You are going to have to clear your mind. Let yourself grieve. Then get to work.
You have to be nice without giving in. (repeat that 10x)
Pray and intesify your prayer.
Do not believe this!
Quote:
"I am trying to get on with my life -- what's left of it. I suggest you do the same.
You are most likely not the cause of ruining her life, but they will focus on that. They will justify their actions by saying things to this nature. Do not believe it.
Good luck and God speed. I will be praying for you buddy.
