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Brian,

I see this as a positive....your W is seeing some of the impact of the current sitch....an opportunity to work together on something to solve a problem....sorry you don't have any money....but money isn't everything and often causes more problems than it helps.

I love reading your posts and love your titles.....I think you are doing very well....do you think it is about time you got a lap back for your next title?.....you deserve it!

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Mike...

Guilty as charged yes I did say it, I am just running out of things to say with everything that gets thrown at me and I backslide.

I did tell her and I forgot to post it on the other day, I told her this is strictly the business side of the R and I for one am not going to confuse it with the personal side of the R, hope she can do the same. I think she is realizing her part in all of this maybe.

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Mike...

There were some positives that's a plus. She knows she will have to face the music right along with me, I can't do it all. I worry where when this is all said and done where the R will stand.

Maybe you can borrow that light saber that SC was gonna build instead of wood...

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Maybe you can borrow that light saber that SC was gonna build instead of wood...


I never was one for electrical gadgets. I prefer the wood. It's growing all around me.

I can stop buy CVS and buy tweezers and have them shipped out to you if you prefer..

better yet I'm sure STBX can find some on EBAY for you. \:o

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Originally Posted By: TwinDad
Brian,

I see this as a positive....your W is seeing some of the impact of the current sitch....an opportunity to work together on something to solve a problem....sorry you don't have any money....but money isn't everything and often causes more problems than it helps.

I love reading your posts and love your titles.....I think you are doing very well....do you think it is about time you got a lap back for your next title?.....you deserve it!


TwinDad...

Thanks for stoppin by, that is my goal here to get 'both' of 'us' to figure this out had she not chose to make the decisions she has made 6 months ago this wouldn't even be an issue right now.

Sometimes I have the urge to tell W about here and let her read some of this stuff, but I don't think it would help the only thing that is going to help is time. I appreciate you think I am doing well feels like I spin my wheels alot. I have no idea when I get the 'lucky dog' lap back...

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Maybe you can borrow that light saber that SC was gonna build instead of wood...


I never was one for electrical gadgets. I prefer the wood. It's growing all around me.

I can stop buy CVS and buy tweezers and have them shipped out to you if you prefer..

better yet I'm sure STBX can find some on EBAY for you. \:o


Mike...

Thats true you are surrounded by beautiful tress in your neck of the woods...lucky me LOL

May take you up on the new tweezers, mine are getting a bit bent out of shape.

I'm sure on Ebay they are cheaper ;\)

I will be honest with you, I am getting tired of it ALL....

Brian

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I think NASCAR would dock you a bunch of points for that and possibly suspend you a race. Don't feel bad, I have thought along those lines as well, not so much as I want her to read what I have wrote (this would be bad, I don't think she would enjoy knowing our lives were on the internet no matter how anonymous it would seem. Since getting back together, I just don't have as much time to spend here. I think I am a long ways until I am secure that much...probably have to wait until my stuff is deep into the archives......lol


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Sometimes I have the urge to tell W about here and let her read some of this stuff


I think NASCAR would dock you a bunch of points for that and possibly suspend you a race. Don't feel bad, I have thought along those lines as well, not so much as I want her to read what I have wrote (this would be bad, I don't think she would enjoy knowing our lives were on the internet no matter how anonymous it would seem. Since getting back together, I just don't have as much time to spend here. I think I am a long ways until I am secure that much...probably have to wait until my stuff is deep into the archives......lol


TwinDad...

No doubt it would cost me points & probably a fine too boot. No if our WAS knew that we were spillin our guts online that would be a BIG Black Flag. Sometimes I just get to a point of what else can I do...

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Sometimes I just get to a point of what else can I do...


Ohhhh...this is going to get real cheezy now....but NASCAR and life reward consistency in actions (i.e. you might win the most races, but lose the championship if you are inconsistent too much)

Sorry....I think I have to go make myself sick...even if it does make sense.....lol


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Ohhhh...this is going to get real cheezy now....but NASCAR and life reward consistency in actions (i.e. you might win the most races, but lose the championship if you are inconsistent too much)

Sorry....I think I have to go make myself sick...even if it does make sense.....lol


TwinDad, it's much easier and a lot more fun to just "warp him up side da head"

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