Guilty as charged yes I did say it, I am just running out of things to say with everything that gets thrown at me and I backslide.
I did tell her and I forgot to post it on the other day, I told her this is strictly the business side of the R and I for one am not going to confuse it with the personal side of the R, hope she can do the same. I think she is realizing her part in all of this maybe.