Well, I finally met the OW! I felt a little hurt @ first b/c she is real pretty, unlike those u hear about affairing down. BUT, I quickly did not let that get me down..why? b/c I fweel so much better about myself I told myself never again will I let another person get me down or feel bad about myself like STBX use to do.
I feel more sorry than anything for OW b/c he will be always be looking for the next best thing or the next pretty face to continue cheating on her just as he is still trying to get me to have sex w/ him. One day she will catch him w/ the next OW. This is the first time he has the girls for so long(2 weeks), so it was my regular scheduled weekend (& a break for him as he called it). It was the 1st time I went to their home and so I knew I would meet her. I stayed in the car as she walked up and I lowered my window and she extended her hand & said that it was about time we finally met. I agreed w/ a big smile ( even though I would prefer never meeting her at all).
When it was time to drop them off , I intentionally (he he) dressed for the kill (as per Michelle's advice, for fun). I wore a really tight cute bright purple top and form fitting jeans. Mind you I have lost close to twenty pounds. Well, I got out to let the kids out and noticed STBX was checking me out, looking at my smaller belly & staring at my chest.
Quick rewind-
I have a new guy freind who at first thought I was ready to date but then now realized I am enjoying my new alone time/ life. Well, one day when STBX was to drop them off, he called last minute to meet half way and I had this guy over helping me w/ my recent move and moving furniture around. I told ex this that a guy was over and he suggested(angrily) that I either bring him or send him home. My freind laughed & rememberd when I told him STBX braught OW to the last drop off for the first time. So my friend said "two can play this game", do u want me to come w/ u? I thought about it and said sure what the heck! We went in his truck and STBX stayed in the car the entire time, unlike his small chit chat he quickly rushed out of there w/out even a hello to me..
After that its been threats of him not giving me my cs (before we went to court) emails w/ the same 'ol comment of my 'new family'. SO on this last drop off he told me not to bring my "BF" and threatning not to pay me.. he is so revengeful.
