Thanks AJ - Only just remembered I posted in here.
Have a look at major developments from my newcomers thread if you like as moved on loads since my week away last week.
I've deceided I'm moving on. The door is ajar and I will be there for her if she asked, but I don't see that happening in a hurry. I feel I've been more than understanding to what's gone on, but will do the Divorce and move on with my life now. I deserve more than I've been getting and looking back a lot last week, realised I've given a lot. Often not the right 'lot' and I would be happy to work on that with W but she does not want to.
Very scared for my W's well being at the moment though. Being a depressed person, I imagine these sitches are even tougher than they are on others. Time will tell
