Hi again imt,
I'm looking forward to "meeting" you in KLA. We sound so similar, I've done the same as you in conversations with H, in the midst of listening and validating I rush on to another topic which is on my mental list. "DOH"
While you got the TLTL message from your H, I received, "you had plenty of chances you just don't have any more."

Originally Posted By: imt
ish, I just read your post on another thread (in the meantime) and just wanted to drop in because you sound so much like me - the part that really caught my eye was the 'kind hearted but wouldn't be considered sweet' - made me laugh!- I'm much too serious and intense for most people.

It might have something to do with us being over-functioning as our H's play video-games and pursue their happiness while thinking that someone else will take care of the mundane details of life.

Originally Posted By: imt
You're doing really well.

Thanks for the affirmation. Having read a lot of your story it looks as if you were excellent at your DB'ing, so, receiving a compliment from you means a lot to me.


Me: 59
H: 59
Together: 28 years
Married: 25 years in August
"There may be someone else" 12/26/07
H signed a one year lease 4/1/08
H moved out 5/11/08
H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08
Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08