Luckily I got out of the DIY with my other sister as she decided to have a weekend off from it!
Just wanted to check with you guys as it makes me feel better... I was thinking of what to write in my h's birthday card and came up with this to send with the shaving voucher.
Dear H
Thought this was quite 'Bugsy Malone'! Happy Birthday
Julia
Three 180s here. 1. My wording is not 'loaded in any way'. 2. I sign it from me, with my name - since the split I have done everything from my cat or signed 'me'. I hope this shows some detachment and independence. 3. There is no 'love Julia'. Although I would sign 'love' as a matter of course to any friend.
Is it a bit unfriendly? I seem to over do things at the moment but I don't want to go the other way! I thought I thought I would add the Bugsy Malone bit as it is one of his favourite musicals...
Sorry to be so paranoid but as contact is so limited at the moment I want to get things as right as I possibly can.
Appreciate all your input as always (((everyone)))