Thanks for stopping by... been awake 'board surfing' and looks like lots of folks can't sleep tonight!
I know that "getting focus off H" is definitely the way to go; my efforts here get compromised because H is so omnipresent. S18 knows that H goes 'away' at night (but is back before 6am each morning that he's gone...he stayed here Fri/Sat nite), but S12 doesn't even know that yet. And I am still not ready to be the one to tell him...
More to say later; finally getting tired enough to maybe get some more sleep...
