PS I should have added that I have been wondering these things because I have never met anyone in 8 years alone who is single or not just exiting a marriage. Maybe it only applies to people in my age range and for those wondering it is the "old" range. Gosh I even filled in a questionaire that didn't have me included! maybe all my contempories died. 55yrs+ is all I am saying or admiting too! lol.