I'm still not sure about starting D proceedings myself (if H hasn't beaten me to it) but I do know that I need to get the financal sitaution sorted once and for all. Why the hell should I take a 3rd job just b/c he no longer wants the responsibility of our family? Will have to see what L says.
I've been Dragon Boat racing this weekend. It was good fun but very tiring especially as it was my turn to drive and it was 3hrs each way. Still there was a party on Saturday night (at which I got very drunk ) and it was good to let my hair down. After all it might be the last time I can do it for a while until I get myself back on my feet financially. This is what I am so cross about. H & OW are out having a good time most of the week (I know b/c S15 tells me) and yet it's me who needs the social life more than them b/c it's me who is trying to bring up a family by myself. AAAAArrrrrrrrGGhh.
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) and it was good to let my hair down. After all it might be the last time I can do it for a while until I get myself back on my feet financially. This is what I am so cross about. H & OW are out having a good time most of the week (I know b/c S15 tells me) and yet it's me who needs the social life more than them b/c it's me who is trying to bring up a family by myself. AAAAArrrrrrrrGGhh.