when he says D or anything all you have to do is say ok or even just stay quiet and see what he says- my H said this one month ago and i wanted to throw myself in front of a car inside, yet on the outside o was calm and quiet and just let him talk..i just said ok...later in the talk i said if thats what you want i trust your decision...then he never brought it up again....im sure if i would have reacted poorly and lost it he would have felt defensive and said it more..its weird but for some reason it works. i got that advice from here and DR book.
what are your plans for when you interact with him tomorrow? you can make it very good! PMA and another thing that helped me was self fulfilling prophecy- if i thin the worst it will happen- BUT if i think the BEST that will happen too
im happy your D is potty trained- what a relief- big girl undies..so cute
also- look at advice from wise DB'ers in the top section of forums- there is a link that says you can make it through today and your emotions dont need to lead the way....also only you can know when its over and LIMBO land is too much- limbo SUCKS and is hard but the alternative is worse in my opinion....what do you think?
(((chris)))
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