agreed that being tipsy isn't usually the best time to bring stuff up, but I totally understand cause it seems like I do the same thing everytime! I get so emotional drinking. But glad it all turned out good for you! And I'm sure it's because you didn't make everything a big huge deal, and now he's witnessed what he almost lost and he's not wanting to lose it again. \:\)

oh, and I don't think that comment was dumb. maybe the wrong time to bring up, but def not a dumb question.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."