I read on another forum a story about a guy with a young wife who actually went to OM's PARENTS house and told on him. lol
The parents called the OM to their home and all four of them sat down ( no wife there, she was out of the loop ) and the parents made OM apologize and promise to leave his wife alone. lol
How embarassing would that be!? To have your mommy call you and say "You are sleeping with some other man's wife...get your ass home...you have some explaining to do!" I wonder if they grounded him! lol
Anyways, I just saw some similarities here ... not likely that this would happen for your OM situation, but it was a funny story to hear.
It also demonstrates the immaturity that OM live with. Violating homes and being scolded by his parents like he's a child. Just terrible.
Anyways, best of luck with your db'ing..sounds like you have it all under control.