in my experience, it comes iwth time....its only recently that i've been able to not worry too much about what she thinks of me. I still do on occasion. Of course, things are going in a positive directions. Ask me if things start going downhill....LOL....
it's a complicated process............detachment............just be YOU. with some added improvements...but overall, be you. it'll come....
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
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