FLTC, Just take it one day at a time. Sounds to me like you are still overly focussed on your W and her whole drama. You will know that you are in a good place when her ranting just makes you smile and think, "there was a time when this affected me, now it just makes me glad that I am not tied to this unhappy person".
That's where I am now...just don't laugh out loud, this is not well received.
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Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread