Twerpled on the Head with a Magic Kumquat

[girlfromipanema]

I think you need a lawyer, especially because of your business ties. It is my impression that the woman in a divorce will usually get screwed (so to speak) if she doesn't have good legal help.

That's my fear... he handles all the finances and I have no idea where everything is. Lots of different accounts set up (some $$$ even transferred to another country). However, he did come into the relationship with substantial savings and I don't want to take any of that. I just want what's fair.