Originally Posted By: lodo
Anyway, i know things are different for those of us w/o kids, so feel free to ask questions if you have any.

Did you use a lawyer, mediator or ?

Using a lawyer seems so harsh in my sitch. I want to do what's fair re: splitting assests. But, we need to maintain a friendly relationship because of our professional lives. I don't want to be taken advantage of or give up too much, but don't want a fight.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence