FL and Barb,

Two years before MY bomb, my now X bought me a giant diamond and took me to Cancun for our anniversary.

I don't know when he met the bombo, but she gave him something I did not. And I do take responsibility for not being what he needed. But he never told me what that was.

I think they don't know so they don't tell us. So we don't know either and it hit's us like a brick. But I honestly think they were never really happy with us or it wouldn't have taken something so inconsequential to blow up their families.

I think it has nothing at all to do with us. We just didn't know.