Ah, Val, I wonder if that's what I'll see: H continues R w/OW in order to not be alone and to have someone to contribute to expenses and to be his loyal admirer and person to control.

I think H treats OW with disdain, based on fragment of conversation he left on answering machine by mistake. I pick up resentment and frustration w/OW. Unfortunately this hasn't translated into any softer feelings for me, although I would add that I have had more respect in the past few months.

But again....interesting that YOU moved on and X chugs along with Moss (what I call her cause she's clingy).


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D