Originally Posted By: warm&sunny

Any suggestions on how to go.....it's been the same pattern so far; I get fed up...he tells me it's over, he's going to move forward, rent/buy a house & start keeping S5 a lot more. I start to back down, but move further away from spending time w/him-no intimacy. He acts like he doesn't care, but pulls in my other family members & shows how he can't do enough for them.

I broke the pattern by not responding to calls/email & not having any contact since last Weds.
Should I keep that up?


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How did you find out, by the way???


I have my sources L ;\)

Also found that he did bail her out of foreclosure in March.
This OW is going to hold on for dear life & not let go.
She'll probably do whatever it takes to get me to finally call it a day.

Sunny




Yes. It seems to be working.