Thanks for your post. I do not know for sure if my WAS has OW. He keeps saying he doesn't. His problem with me - and he just said this today -- is that we are DIFFERENT! When I try to tell him that's not a reason to divorce, he denies it.
On the other hand, you say they have no reason to have interaction with you. How is that working for you. My H is home today, and was here last night. He's been staying in our camper in the trailer park for the past two months, but now he says he is tired of it and wants to be home because it's more "comfortable."
He's sick right now with hay fever. That's his excuse anyway. We did have a big fight today and I told him to leave and go back to the camper, but he refuses. He did receive a phone call today from someone he says is "Keith." I overheard him telling Keith that he was home and that he was "trying to stay out of an arguement."
Don't know what that was all about. Maybe some kind of Men's Rights Group for Divorcing Men or something. He won't tell me. Who knows?
As far as it being easier if its a man, I tend to disagree with you on that one. My H is the kind that once he makes up his mind with something, his stick-to-it-tiveness has amazing control. He has not budged in three months and is barging right through this D.