So at 10:50 I get a text that asks if I am F'ing him out of the house because this feels funny? WTF? Hes the one that suggested this, not me. So we texted back and forth and then I called him and told him I am offended that he would even say that. After all this crap, that he caused? I'm trying to help clean up a mess he has made, but I have questionable motives? WHATEVER! So I get called a bitch at the end of the convo. We end up going and getting it signed and you could cut the tension with a knife.
So sorry things aren't going well Corey. I've had some of that too, where my H is unhappy & witchy about stuff with the D and he's the one that filed for it and wanted it so always think WTH? when he is like that. My theory is (b/c I always have those you know) is that occasionally, very occasionally they actually emerge from the fog for a few minutes or seconds or whatever and realize that they are doing all these things (like gambling, drinking, cheating, living single, etc.) all these things they are doing to have fun or be happy or whatever, and for a few seconds they realize I'm not happy. Well, a lot of us around here would try to figure out why, work on ourselves, but of course our WAS just think well if I'm unhappy, it must be W's fault, and then take their unhappiness out on you. So I would just try to detach and not take it personally, b/c I don't think it is really. Karen
