Any suggestions on how to go.....it's been the same pattern so far; I get fed up...he tells me it's over, he's going to move forward, rent/buy a house & start keeping S5 a lot more. I start to back down, but move further away from spending time w/him-no intimacy. He acts like he doesn't care, but pulls in my other family members & shows how he can't do enough for them.
I broke the pattern by not responding to calls/email & not having any contact since last Weds. Should I keep that up?
You are realy only setting boundaries of what you consider acceptable contact given that H is in relationship with OW. It has not been easy and whats the alternative? because its easy to say , I will say stand your ground , he needs to know that there are consequences to his actions and that you are not going to let him control you.
This course of action is not going to be easy for you I suspect and realy you are the one living your life and only you can make the final decision.
