HeartSacred and IRMAT,

Divorce Busting can work for both people who believe in God and for those who do not.

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We learn to help others in need and NOT to create an idol of our marriage restoration.
Exactly. We cannot lose ourselves in the marriage or the attempt to save that marriage. There are still things that we need to do aside from that attempt. And that is why Michele put in chapter 7 - Make Yourself Happy For a Change. God wants us to be happy. If we aren't happy being an accountant, then make a change. If we want to take up growing bonzai as a hobby, then do it.

IMP

PS to HeartSacred - My high school was Names Sacred Heart.