imt,
With all you are going through and having to consider I wanted to thank you for posting to my thread. I hope you still will be in the KLA 2008 group. With your H still at home it seems as if you have something to work with. Also, I would enjoy getting to know you better.

I haven't been able to read your entire story but I am struck by the similarities between us. (Yes, I grieve for the earthworm who I accidentally bisect with my spade. When using the rototiller I often reach ahead to relocate any hapless insects that I see - especially the mother spider who is frantically moving her egg sac.) Our situations seemed to have many commonalities. We both are less than appreciative of our H's spending hours playing video games. I could never understand my H watching a Three Stooges movie for the umpteenth time on a beautiful Saturday morning.

Me: 59
H: 59
Together: 28 years
Married: 25 years in August
"There may be someone else" 12/26/07
H signed a one year lease 4/1/08
H moved out 5/11/08
H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08
Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08