He still wants you under his control I would say and you are not playing his game right now and thats got him spinning. Right now he is trying to figure if your recent changes have been due to an OM.
Considering it came on the heals of my change in attitude, where I'm not afraid of his response, etc., I think you're right Dave.
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I guess this PI is going to be able to tell him that there is nothing really going on with you and Yacht Guy.. which kind of sucks since it seems to be a thorn in your H's side thinking you're moving on with Mr. Yacht Guy. (W2G)
It also lets him know what kind of threat, if any, OM poses. He prolly wants to know how much he has & if it's more than he has, just a guess.
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All these frantic phone calls to talk to your son seem uncharacteric. Add the concern about his snooping.
What does your Bulls*t Meter say, register? (Gypsy)
Registers high on the BS meter, like I said, he was able to go for days without calling S before, what's the difference now.
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Never a dull moment on your side of the world, right? Your H as everybody else says is a control freak. And jealous. Why else would he go and hire a PI?
Hi SweetK, I can't think of another reason except control of me is slipping thru his fingers.
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I tend to agree with this. Now, more than ever Sunny, is the time for you to play things cool and steady.
Puppy
I'm a little nervous about him coming back. I know he's going to step thing's up.
I found that he does have all the info about a house to rent near here, starting at the end of next month & I absolutely don't want him 4 blocks away camping out w/OW. He said he may just give my friend & her family notice & move back into our old house. That bothers me too, but I'm still feeling like I can detach. Nothing I can do beyond telling him my preferences, which I've already done.
Any suggestions on how to go.....it's been the same pattern so far; I get fed up...he tells me it's over, he's going to move forward, rent/buy a house & start keeping S5 a lot more. I start to back down, but move further away from spending time w/him-no intimacy. He acts like he doesn't care, but pulls in my other family members & shows how he can't do enough for them.
I broke the pattern by not responding to calls/email & not having any contact since last Weds. Should I keep that up?
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How did you find out, by the way???
I have my sources L
Also found that he did bail her out of foreclosure in March. This OW is going to hold on for dear life & not let go. She'll probably do whatever it takes to get me to finally call it a day.
