It seems like a lot of stories are that the WAS wants to reconcile, but the LBS has moved on.
I am sorry to say that you must be reading things I have missed for the last 2+years. Very, and I mean very few times have I read stories like that on this board. I grant you that every once in a great while someone will come on here with a story like that. Unfortunately for the vast majority of people here they are LBS with all the responsibilities of a former marriage, including the lion's share of raising children, keeping a house, trying to payoff debt accured by the actions of the WAS. Plus all the pain and B.S. that goes along with it. Yeah, I know some people are going to say that I am over dramatic and that "karma" will come back to get those WAS who do those things, well, I'm sorry to say that I have seen very little karma in the time I have been here too. Bottom line is this, our society has no bounds nor limits to the actions of people. The prevailing philosophy is; whatever you want to do, don't worry about other people or children, do what YOU WANT to be happy. Until that attitude changes, don't expect actions to change.
